Addict in covering their addiction
Research says, It never helps the addict to cover up their addiction. It never helps to hide their actions while under the influence of drugs. It must be made clear to them that the only way to a clear and better life is by ridding their body of the drugs. Hope IS waiting on the other side. Never let the drug addict drags you down with them. As hard as it is, you must maintain as much normalcy in your life despite what the drug addict does. This does not mean you should not be supportive. Offer them all of the help you can…to get clean! Outside of that, do not let them drag your life down to their drug addicted level. Drug addictions destroy entire families and entire communities. It is only by helping the addict see that there is help and there is hope that they can break free of the addiction. Their addiction only allows them to see the pain and misery. This is part of the addiction. Keep telling them that they can be happy again once they are free from the addiction.
Loving a drug addict is never easy. There is pain involved and it is difficult not to let yourself be dragged down into the pit with them. Ultimately, they must make the decision. Be there for them no matter how many times they try and fail, as long as they keep trying! The biggest way you can help is by letting them know you are there when they decide they have had enough. Also be clear that you will not lie or cover up for them and they must take responsibility for their own actions. It isn’t easy, but it is the only way to help an addict see what path they must take.